Dear
Diary,
Day 8 of #Zip_It_40_Day_Challenge
#Shut_Down_the_Motormouth
Have
you ever become a surety/guarantor for someone then the whole deal turned bad
on you? Did you figure out the best way to extricate yourself from the deal? I don’t
know about your experience but if you know you know, giving surety or guaranteeing
performance of a financial obligation for someone can turn bad on you. Proverbs
17:18 says, “It's poor judgment to guarantee another person's debt or put up
security for a friend,” (NLT).
I
love the Bible because it has answers for all the issues of life. In my zip it
challenge I came across this passage about giving suretyship, Proverbs 6:1-5. Note,
the Bible doesn’t tell us not to help out a friend in need but it gives us a
warning against imprudent and spontaneous commitments; we must be careful what
we agree to and/or what we promise.
What
are the consequences of becoming a surety/guarantor? If you are in a SACCO am
certain a friend has approached you requesting you to be his/her guarantor for
a loan. I have done that and I thank God my friends so far haven’t defaulted. I
once took a loan from my SACCO and had two friends co-sign for me. I paid my
loan without default. My mom did the same and she ended up paying tens of
thousands because the friend defaulted. I saw the pain and distress she went
through!
Prov.
6:1 warns us not to put up security for our neighbour. Surety/ Guarantor mean
becoming legally responsible for the debts or default of another person. By
becoming surety, you legally obligate yourself to pay the debt if the person
proves unable or unwilling to do so. You simply become trapped by your words;
the vow of promise you took; you agreed to be responsible; you made yourself
accountable to his/her financial obligation.
Now,
if you find yourself in this situation, what do you do? Look at the advice the wise
man gives in v.3-4. For the sake of your well-being: with urgency go and humble
yourself before your friend; plead with him/her; don’t delay until you do
everything possible and appropriate to extricate yourself from the financial obligation.
For my mom, unfortunately she had to pay to free herself from the debt. Her
savings were swallowed just like that!
In
future, consider these passages before you put a security for someone’s debt, “He
who puts up security for a stranger will surely suffer, but the one who hates
indebtedness is secure,” Proverbs 11:15; “Do not be one who gives pledges, who
puts up security for debts,” Proverbs 22:26. Si mimi nimesema, ni Bibilia!
Regards,
NzakuNashipae
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