Wednesday, 7 November 2018

A Rule for Conversations


Dear Diary,

Day 6 of the #Zip_it_40_Day_Challenge
#Shut_Down_the_Motomouth

My speech will never be the same after these 40 Day Challenge so help me God!

Proverbs 4:24 says, “Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips.” “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen,” Ephesians 4:29.

As human beings, whether a chatterbox or an introvert, our daily garrulity and banter conversations might have some profane, perfidious, arrogant, flattery, vain and trifling, contemptuous, railing and abusive words. Both the writer of Proverbs and Ephesians give us a doable rule for our conversations, i.e. to keep our mouths free of perversity and our lips from corrupt and unwholesome talk.

Merriam Webster defines these key words as follows: 1. Unwholesome, “Detrimental to physical, mental or moral well-being.” 2. Corrupt, “Morally degenerated, adulterated or debased speech.” 3. Perversity, “Turned away from what is right or good contrary to accepted standards.” So, perverse, corrupt and unwholesome talk is detrimental to physical, mental and/or moral well-being of a person. It could be an idle tale, a joke, and an irrelevant word. Such unwholesome and corrupt talk defiles people, injures souls and leaves fatal scars in people’s hearts. Besides, it grieves the Holy Spirit!

Words act in two ways: 1. Words are results, i.e. they come forth and show what’s inward; 2. Words are acts, i.e. they cause something beyond. Therefore it is prudent to double the guard over our mouths. Observe the rule: keep your mouth free of perversity and your lips from corrupt and unwholesome talk. Let only that which is helpful for building others up according to their needs proceed out of our mouths; only that which will benefit your listeners!

#Resolve
Psalm 141:3 is my earnest prayer, “Set a guard over my mouth, Lord, keep watch over the door of my lips, that no perverse, corrupt and unwholesome talk will come from my mouth. Amen!”

R,
NzakuNashipae

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